Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How attitude affects your state of singleness

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Attitude is ones disposition towards things or people. As long as a person has a negative attitude prospective suitors will stay away from such a single. Here are some of the negative attitude some singles have...
I- don’t- care attitude- Some singles have a disposition to things and people that are negative; they do not care what happens to other people. Provided all is well with them, every body else may as well go to blazes.

Carefree attitude- Some singles are just too care free; they do things whenever they want and not when it should be done. They dress the way they want, even if what they put on is seductive; they express themselves the way they feel, etc.

Effect
Wrong first impression- It is said that, first impression last long; there are times in life that you may never get a second chance to make another impression. Many singles that have negative attitude, paint a negative picture of themselves in the mind of the people observing them. Never forget that there are people watching you and the way you react to things.

The way out
Change your mindset- It is important that you change the way you think, because information that has formed a belief system is a key ingredient in determining our disposition to life. There is need for you to change the information you adhere to, open your mind to the Scriptural approach to life and issues that may confront you.

Be conscious of other people’s feeling- Do not do or say things the way you feel, think well before you do or say things to people. Do not do things the way you feel it should be done, rather do it the way it should be done.

Maintain good personal hygiene- Do not just dress shabbily, watch what you put on, take your bath everyday especially in the mornings. Brush your teeth and scrub your tongue with your brush to avoid mouth odour. Keep a low clean-cut, shave your beards and armpit. Iron your cloth, and polish your shoes; and learn how to combine colours so as not to wear clothes that are not compatible in colour combination. Stop picking your nose in public.

A self-centered person is like a bottomless pit.
Pastor Sam Ajana
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